Does she hate séx and run away from it when you touch her? Here are what might be the problem why she is like that.
Many men are quick to conclude that their partners are satisfied with
their séx life simply because the woman has not been complaining.
However, they also express surprise that their partner is hardly in
the mood for séx, and she is always coming down with headaches and
tiredness towards bed time.
Experts say while the excuses may be valid on occasions, often, there
are underlying problems that make the woman avoid sex, even when she
doesn’t necessarily love her partner less.
So, what are the five reasons that make women avoid sex? These ones…
• She’s finds séx painful
Séx should feel good — but 11 percent of the women in the survey
reported feeling pain during sex. In fact, a separate study of nearly
7,000 British women also found that one in 13 women feel physical pain
during sex. This made women more likely to feel uninterested in sex.
Plus, they also had more trouble getting wet and reaching orgasm.
Focusing on foreplay, and a using little lubricant when she needs
extra help can help remedy the situation, says lead study author, Dr.
Kirstin Mitchell. Focusing on making her feel good will lead to less
pain and more arousal, which ultimately leads to more (and better) sex
for the both of you.
• You can’t get hard
This one is a bit out of her control: Six percent of women surveyed
reported that their partner had sexual issues, like erectile
dysfunction. While that may be out of her hands, it’s completely up to
you to take care of your erection problems.
• She’s too tired
According to a survey of 2,000 women aged 30-80, a quarter of women
reported avoiding sex because they were too tired. Indeed, a 2010 poll
by the National Sleep Foundation found that married people or couples
living together were too tired for frequent sex 21 to 26 percent of the
time.
• There’s a lack of intimacy
Women say they avoid séx due to a lack of intimacy. Feeling connected to
you is crucial for her, since research shows that women have trouble
reaching orgasm if they’re not psychologically aroused. So, you can’t
just push the right buttons physically — she has to feel mentally turned
on, too.
• She feels anxious
Thirteen percent of women in the survey reported avoiding sex because
they were anxious. This could potentially stem from any pain she’s
feeling. In the study, women often felt anxious during sex because they
started anticipating painful séx, Mitchell explains.
Feeling self-conscious about it can also make her feel nervous, as
she may not want to bring it up and hurt your feelings. If things feel
awkward, just communicate with her: Openly ask if what you’re doing
feels good and go from there.
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