Why Are You Still Single? 10 Answers

          Sometimes we just don’t understand what is happening with us. We keep in mind weird conflicting ideas which prevent us from a happy relationship and we remain single.

So here are 10 thoughts that might prevent from finding your true love:

1. You are still too obsessed with your exes

You think about your past relationship or just an idea of them for too long. That’s why you can’t get close enough with another person. You just don’t allow anyone to compete with the thoughts about your exes.

2. You don’t think about your exes ever

Usually, thinking of your past relationships allows you to analyze you mistakes. It can help you to become a better person. Or to figure out what person you want to date with.

3. You have too high standards

If you want perfection, nobody would fit your expectations. No person on our planet is perfect. Try to care less at least about some not very important things.

4. Your standards are too low

Have some preferences. There is no need to date any person you can. Try to make a map of love: put there all qualities you would like to see in your partner. Define some qualities and look for them.

5. You make love a night too fast

When you start to kiss even before the dinner is ready it is rather desperate behavior. Your partner will surely think that you lack some self-esteem.

6. You wait too long for the intimacy

If it has been several years you have been waiting all this time, get married already and do it. There is no sense of living in the constant fear of something new.

7. You give too much

It is bad if your world always revolves around your partner. You should leave some room for your own life. There is no need to follow your girlfriend if she leaves the room to brush her teeth.

8. You don’t give enough

If you give your partner zero time it is also a mistake. Don’t be obsessed with only one sphere of your life. It is possible to combine them.

9. Being too negative

Of course each person has good and bad moments. But if the majority of your words are complains – try to re-analyze your life. You can always find some good aspects. Don’t be too focused on bad things. Partners usually get annoyed of hearing only bad things from you.

10. Being too positive

If your spouse act badly and you take it as if it were for granted you are wrong. Don’t be afraid to tell that you want to be treated better. Because everyone deserves it.

So while you are single – learn to love yourself, search your aims in life, balance yourself. And the partner you deserve will occur in the most unexpected moment.